I can’t talk about writing today. There are too many other things that need to be talked about.
I will not mince words. Please spend some time looking at yourself and the ways you are participating in and upholding racist systems and patterns. I’m talking about the way you think and the things you choose to do or not do.
Before you protest that you aren’t racist I promise you that you ARE participating in upholding a system that is. I know I am. We were all raised within it. We are all part of it. The only way it changes is if we each take responsibility for ourselves.
Here are some ways you can help:
Pay attention to the racism that is happening around you. For example:
- the idea that we are “post-racial” (eg. All Lives Matter)
- dismissing people’s ideas because they don’t fulfill your idea of what is “respectable” (also known as respectablity politics)
- dismissing people’s ideas because you don’t like the way they present them (also known as tone policing)
- refusing to acknowledge white privilege
- believing that good intentions make up for the harm caused by racist behaviour
- talking about “reverse racism”
Take a course or read a book written by an expert.
Deliberately expand your perspective
Read books, listen to music, watch movies and TV shows which centre non-white people. Some reading to start with:
- A Raisin the Sun by Lorraine Hansbury
- One Drum by Richard Wagamese
- Son of a Trickster by Eden Robinson
Follow accounts, read blogs, listen to podcasts by people who are impacted by racism. Listen to what they have to say. Really listen. Don’t talk, don’t protest, don’t drown out what they’re saying in your own feelings. Just listen. Some accounts to start with:
Talk to your friends and family about what you’re learning
If we all stay quiet then we all think that no one is doing anything. I don’t mean you should trumpet your learning to the world and demand cookies for being a good person. I mean talk to the people in your life about the things that matter to you.
Here are things you should NOT do:
- Centre yourself, your experience, and your learning. This isn’t about you.
- Ask Black, Indigenous, or other people of colour to tell you what to do about racism.
- Display your learning as a way to show how you are not racist.
- Learn one thing and think that you’re done.
- Be horrible to people who make mistakes.
Before you do anything
Before you do anything (especially if it involves Black, Indigenous or other non-White people): Stop and think, will this cause harm?
Before you do anything stop and think, will this cause harm?
If you aren’t sure try googling what you’re about to do (even if it’s something as simple as commenting on a Black person’s Instagram caption), chances are someone is talking about it. You probably won’t get a right/wrong answer because every person and every situation is different. The point is to THINK and proceed with love and consideration. When you mess up, and you will, be ready to give a real apology without excuses.
When you mess up, and you will, be ready to give a real apology without excuses.
This won’t be comfortable. It isn’t supposed to be. If you feel sick and culpable and unsure then you’re probably on the right track. That’s where I’m at right now.
I’m learning with you,
-Laurie, HF Associate Editor
I’d love to hear about what you’re learning, resources you’ve found, and how you’re applying what you’ve learned in your own life.
Please note, I am not an expert on racism, I just didn’t want to say nothing. Please get your information and your learning from experts who have consented to share it (I have listed some of these in this post) and respect their boundaries.
Hateful comments will not be tolerated.